I am not condoning sin. I just get a little upset at people pointing out so very loudly the sins of others that they find SO OBJECTIONABLE. Everyone sins. There is someone who would find your sins or mine as objectionable as a poster here might find a gay person’s sins. For instance, someone here might really treat their spouse horribly, emotionally. And yet they might yell and carry on on FR about the horrible gays. Gd might well feel their decades of emotional cruelty to their long suffering spouse as way worse than a gay man succumbing to his desires.
And we shouldn’t condone sin. And we should have a sane plan in mind for people caught in sin.
It’s a matter of an inborn need met the wrong way. Godliness has to be gained to remedy the problem. Learning how to gain from the love of God can be difficult but support groups and counselors can help focus this love.