Orthodox rabbis often advise people to try and avoid their homosexual urges, even to marry the opposite sex. But in a personal conversation, they mostly feel private sex lives are for Gd to sort out.
Years ago I remember Dennis Prager relating a story when he was at puberty age at his yeshiva. He went to his father and talked about how the Torah says not to masturbate. His father told him, “Gd has so many more important issues to worry about. Don’t worry about it.”
Two issues affect us all in the homosexuality topic. 1) There are more gays and possibly increasing; we should look to cause and prevention with a clinical, fearless eye; and 2) there is a gay agenda by the leftists which we need to reflect onto them and stop. Wanting decent treatment is fine, anything more than that is heterophobia.
I’m one of those crazy Christians so I have a somewhat different point of view for a largely Christian society.
Still, I think being frank about these things (we often act as if God would be surprised at sin) is helpful. Allow the occasion of falling into sin (which begins with ideas) to be a learning opportunity. Don’t worry, but do by all means ask God to see how to do better next time.