Karen, get your kids the hell out of public schools and home-school them!
Put your career on hold - do whatever you have to do - but you HAVE to get them OUT of public schools, because this stuff is just going to continue to get worse and worse, and their goal is to get your kids as screwed up as the teachers and the administrators are....
I often wonder, if you home school 2 kids - it would take what 2 - 3 hours a day maybe 4?
All principled parents should put their daughters and sons in private schools.