What the hell are you talking about?
I had a gender reveal with my middle child. We toon the ultrasound results in a sealed envelope to a bakery who then made us a beautiful cake filled with pink icing. We had no idea it was a girl. The cake was covered in fondant and said “twinkle twinkle little star how we wonder what you are”. My parents & in-laws were there and we face timed the aunts and uncles to be. Then my husband and I used our cake cutter from our wedding to cut into the cake which revealed pink icing. My daughter is 14 months old and isnannormal little girl. Why on earth would a party such as this damage her in some way??
You are right.
I’m sorry, but with all the LGBT carp these days, this mention of the gender reveal set off all the alarms.
There’s nothing at all wrong with what you described.
My kids are in their 40s now, so these new events along the way are not something I have kept in tune with.