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To: Tax-chick

“Push” presents...ugh. Even more unnecessary than gender reveal parties.


74 posted on 07/09/2017 5:01:34 PM PDT by FamiliarFace
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To: FamiliarFace

I learned about “push presents” on Free Republic. I get the idea that this was a European nobility kind of thing that tumbled down the social ladder. Me, silly farm girl ... I thought not being pregnant anymore was all reward I needed!

Apparently there is also a custom of the father’s giving the mother a present every year on the child’s birthday, even if the parents are no longer married or “together.” I don’t even expect presents on my birthday, except from my mother. Also, I get a card from my brother.

My husband and I have a deal: he earns a living, I make sure it stretches for all of us. I don’t ask how much he spends on his hobbies and travel. He doesn’t ask how much I give to the Missionaries of the Poor. Once in a while I say, “Mind what you spend until we’ve paid off the credit card bill,” and we’re both careful for a while.


83 posted on 07/09/2017 5:12:53 PM PDT by Tax-chick (I don't get out much.)
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