“Seriously though, how many examples are there of kids being tortured to death in day care centers?”
That’s a caricature. The damage is far more long-lasting and pernicious, as an entire generation of children were abandoned by their mommies in order to “preserve their quality of life” yada yada. Those kids needed their moms, and no nameless, faceless “childcare worker” can replace at minimum wage.
Have you ever thought you are raising a caricature too?
As good little righties, we tell these people that leaving them alone is all that God wants us to do. Then we stand and judge when circumstance steers them into suboptimal arrangement.