lol.
My Gaydar isn’t so great.
I worked with about 3 dozen or more over time in Manhattan investment bank graphics depts and it was only VERY obvious in a third, somewhat obvious in another third, and no clue with the other third as to who was gay.
At least upon first appearances and conversations.
The one who sang Dancing Queen while doing a pirouette on his first day, he was an easy call.
The abba song? I love that tune because the only time I ever heard it I was in a chair at my orthodontist office with his SMOKING hot assistants leaning over my face...