An 8! Wow I am am not worth. I was 15 and my regular partner for a 5,5,5 Nassah was a 7 he would give me 6 shots per 9 and that was a lot of fun. Yes best way to get to know someone is to play a round with them
Here is one you will appreciate. Your Golf handicap is equal to the number of days you work in a month (8 hour days). A weekend duffer who works 5 days a week for 4.3 weeks per month equals 22 which is a round of say 95.
What got me was you work your game with lessons and practice, you play 50 holes a week with various rounds of 9 etc. You play well. Then life changes and you can’t practice as much. Your game erodes. Nothing more frustrating than not playing well, knowing that you are capable of doing better.
I cam go out on any day and hit 12 greens and shoot 85. That’s a lot of three putts if you know what I’m saying.