In my younger, far less religious and more libertarian days, I attended the backyard marriage ceremony of a lesbian couple, friends at the time. It was officiated by an Episcopal priest. Even then, it felt so utterly wrong.
I was much more libertarian (libertine?) in my younger days and, given my aunt was a practicing lesbian my whole life who I was taught to accept and I was indoctrinated to believe the Kinsey studies in high school and college, I would have probably been enthusiastically in favor of queer marriage if the idea existed. Funny thing is 25 years ago queer marriage didn’t exist as an idea except in the minds of a few radicals and now it is deemed a constitutional right by judicial fiat. We have fallen so far so fast. We cannot take another Souter or Kennedy on the bench.