I’ll be spending three days next month with her 24/7 at a retreat we’re all going to in the Mountains. I intend to ask her some very defined questions as she isn’t not incapacitated from communicating. Just has brain fluffs now and then in conversation....she writes many things down now as she forgets what she knows she otherwise knows.
This is none of my business. I’m not there and don’t know what you have in mind.
She now goes through days with problems. She isn’t who she used to be. She’s in and out, even if for short periods now.
She is looking forward to time with all of you. She will look at it as a time of escape, the old times flooding back in.
Let her enjoy the days. She is receiving good care. Spend your time letting her know how much you love, respect, and admire her, whichever you deem appropriate.
I think you’ll look back on it and feel like you made the right choice. She’ll look back on it as perhaps one of the last times she escaped what’s coming down.
Best wishes...