The first you mention are “poverty profiteers” (like public school teachers in the ‘hood); they are paid to pretend to care. The balance, if they live in NYC, are basically hostages; even in “nice parts”, the animals are a subway ride away.
No, it’s a mentality that you would understand if you live, work or have people like that in your family.
Many are affluent but often in a state of perpetual political adolescence.