Posted on 06/14/2016 11:08:46 AM PDT by Kaslin
Fathers Day is coming this Sunday, and theres a lot to think about, given an incident thats still making news days after it broke.
Former Stanford swim team member Brock Allen Turner, who was found guilty by a jury, was sentenced by a judge to six months in jail plus probation for sexually assaulting an unconscious 23-year-old woman behind a dumpster in 2015.
The light sentence was newsworthy, but what really lit up social and legacy media were a public letter from the victim, now scarred for life, and the mind-boggling comments from Mr. Turners father, who said his 20-year-old son shouldnt suffer this much for a mere 20 minutes of action.
Perhaps Dan Turner believes his sons story that it was entirely consensual despite the victims bruises and severely inebriated state. Even if that were so, perhaps he doesnt think that taking advantage of a drunk girl, fleeing the scene and being tackled by two passersby and held for arrest is a big deal.
Dan Turners full quote was: (Brocks) life will never be the one that he dreamed about and worked so hard to achieve. That is a steep price to pay for 20 minutes of action out of his 20 plus years of life.
Im sure he now regrets that comment, which he says was misinterpreted. If you have a strong stomach, read the lengthy, extremely graphic 12-page letter from Brocks victim, detailing not only the incident and the nightmare of a trial but what her life has become since. As for Brock, Judge Aaron Persky said, "A prison sentence would have a severe impact on him. I think he will not be a danger to others.
No wonder people are demonstrating and urging the trial judges impeachment. In some jurisdictions, people have the opportunity to vote such judges out of office.
Apart from its shocking context, Mr. Turners action comment resonated because it exemplifies an unexceptional attitude: Sex as commodity. It matters little whether its in or out of marriage, with love or without, on a single night or weekend, and with abortion as a backup if contraception fails. Hey, its action.
All of the other increasingly bizarre permutations of the sexual revolution begin with the notion of sex as an end unto itself, to be valued solely for its sensations. But sex is so much more than that, which is why the Creator of Heaven and Earth, who can equip Monarch butterflies for an annual 4,000 mile-migration, gave us common sense boundaries and things like the love chemical oxytocin, which bonds husband and wife.
For you Darwinian evolutionists out there, heres a mental picture. Remember the diagram showing a monkey gradually evolving into a bent over man who finally walks in a straight fashion? Our cultures trajectory toward an animalistic view of mating could be drawn in an opposite direction, with the ape at the end muttering about getting some action.
That picture may not be fair to Mr. Turner, a distraught father trying to protect his son, but it puts the kibosh on the notion that were evolving into higher moral beings as we make up new rules along the way.
On the flip side of the Stanford story, there is the overreaction by radical campus feminists who insist that most men are rapists and that the rules of a fair trial do not apply if an accusation is made. This attitude, plus a juicy side narrative of race and class privilege, drove the wide media acceptance of the strippers false charges of rape against the Duke Lacrosse team in 2006 and Rolling Stones fabricated University of Virginia fraternity house rape story in 2014. Its telling how the same media have managed to stifle their own curiosity over numerous claims from credible women accusing Bill Clinton of groping and even rape (Juanita Broaddrick).
A wise man once told me that life is not as complicated as many people make it out to be.
Right and wrong dont take a lot of explaining. The right way to regard the opposite sex, my father taught me, was to see girls and women as created in the image of God and thus of inestimable value. We learned this at church as well, and much of the popular culture of the time elevated the idea of the male protector of hearth, home and country.
The anti-hero who bucks all convention, especially marriage, has become a cultural icon in our debased culture. But as Movieguides Ted Baehr chronicles year after year, the films that reflect traditional virtues still make far more money than others. In an ever-shifting world, people long for strength, stability, honesty and selflessness. And real manhood.
Which brings us back to the 20 minutes of action.
On second thought, lets not go back there. You get the idea.
If girls were not raised today to see men as accessories, atm’s and disposable at any time if they dont get their way,
I’d agree with that.
I have had quite enough with all the darned anti-heroes.
“You people” simply don’t understand that he was an ATHLETE and star SWIMMER for the College! Furthermore, his father was WEALTHY and the two factors automatically come together to prove the point that it was impossible for him to be guilty of the rape.
DON’T YOU GET IT! LET HIM GO IN PEACE!
I guess that’s what daddy expected from the courts...NAH!
I’m tired of the “little people” having one set of laws while the Rich people and prized athletes have another.
I think what you’ve written explains a bigger reality in the sentence the judge handed down that other possible factors.
I was called for jury duty on a campus date rape case.
When the defense lawyer questioned each member of the jury pool, he learned that I was a USMC Vietnam veteran and the father of three daughters.
“You’re dismissed.”
(I would have listened to all the defense arguments... of course, “no” means “NO!”, even if they both were drunk at the time. And the defendant had admitted that she said “no”.)
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