There is a huge difference between love (guiding people to God so they will choose to follow His word) and hate (murdering people by the dozens). This false moral equivalence is a serious logical error.
It’s kind of the strawman argument. Make out Christianity as being fundamentally uncaring and superficial, and then damn that caricature.
It’s a pack of lies, but to get through the lies, we have to be careful ourselves about what the truth is. Humanity itself was born in sin and we’re no exceptions ourselves, not the most pious of us whoever that might be.