officially out of the loop here. And quite frankly, not sure I want to be in the loop. But which is which? Is a guy masquerading as a girl a "ze" and a girl masquerading as a guy a "hir"? Or do these words pertain to everybody depending on what gender of which species you claim at any given point in time? In which case, as a straight, white male, should I be identifying as a lesbian to gain the honor of being referred to as a ze? Or is that a hir?...