Thank you. I was going to avoid this thread, but you've given me courage. I haven't been inside a church for 20 years, other than weddings, funerals, and Christmas cantatas.
I won't go into why that is. I continue to believe. I pray daily. I study the Bible, although perhaps not as much as I should. I try to live a life consistent with my beliefs, although I often fail.
The Lord and I are on good terms. I don't see any need to monkey with the arrangement.