I got my life back after the kids grew up. Now they have little to do with my ex. They know she was a spiteful pain in the arse. I see my grandkids practically every day...she might see them once or twice a year.
Enjoy it. I am looking forward to grandkids. Never thought I would say that.
I am glad the worm turned.
I recall the Chinese proverb: May you live long enough to see your enemies float by you.