[BlueLancer]

"It's their custom. Who are we to judge?"

You say that it is your custom to burn widows.
Very well. We also have a custom:
When men burn a woman alive, we tie a rope around their necks and we hang them.
Build your funeral pyre; beside it, my carpenters will build a gallows.
You may follow your custom. And then we will follow ours.

General Sir Charles Napier

[E. Pluribus Unum]

If it’s your custom, who am I to judge? ;^P