Most of the incidents they would offer as examples are actually just examples that could happen to anyone of any color, they just are programmed to blame it on their race.
Men will always treat an attractive woman better than an ugly fat one.
That’s just a fact.
Thus:
If you are an ugly fat woman and see a man treat a hot white girl like a queen then when dealing with you, treats you like you are not even there... you blame the difference in treatment on your being ugly or fat.
BUT.
If you are an ugly fat and black... you blame the difference in treatment on racism.
Exactly. Which is why we need to know specifically what things they’re dealing with to know if race is really the issue.
I once had an argument with my father, a roaring liberal till the day he died, about problems in the black community. When I said not everything can be blamed on race, he said grimly, "You're starting to sound like a Republican."
By then I had, in fact, switched to the Republican party. And this might have been part of the reason. Republicans seem more in reality -- or rather, aware of the facts of life. Some of us -- in fact, a LOT of us -- are smarter than others. Pretty girls, rather than ugly, tend to get the guys. Liberals keep trying to fit a square peg into a round hole.
I cannot use my gender (female), looks (average), or childhood (difficult) to blame for my mediocrity. Which is what I think many of these BLM people are doing. The black girl who feels out of place at the private school probably has other issues, but why is it the fault of the white students? She might be better off in a different learning environment.
That's exactly the problem. While racism does exist, black folks have been programmed by the media, and everyone around them, really, to view just about any slight as being racism, when it's just a fact that some people are rude, or situations happen for any number of reasons. However, if your only lens is 'racism', then that's what you see.