[Dr. Bogus Pachysandra]

I would ask for the wedding date right away, and tell them , “Sorry! We’ll be on vacation then.” And stay closed that day.

[cuban leaf]

That one goes without saying, as long as you really ARE on vacation. The goal of the pink swastika is to nail you. I.e. they’ll check. And they can coordinate with your schedule. Thing is, they can respond to a response. It’s harder to respond to no response.