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Many Presidents Have Known the Grief of Burying a Child
Townhall.com ^ | October 11, 2015 | Jeff Jacoby

Posted on 10/12/2015 5:45:16 AM PDT by Kaslin

AFTER SIMMERING for months, the speculation about the likelihood of a Joe Biden presidential campaign — and about the impact of his oldest son's death from brain cancer in May — has suddenly gone to a boil.

On Tuesday, Politico reported that Biden himself had been the source for a blockbuster New York Times column by Maureen Dowd, which poignantly described a dying Beau Biden urging his father to enter the 2016 race so that "the White House should not revert to the Clintons." Biden's staff denied the report, but a Biden super PAC aired its first ad on network TV the following morning. The 90-second spot features clips of Biden speaking at Yale, just days before Beau's death, about an earlier tragedy: the deaths of his first wife and young daughter in a 1972 car accident. As it ends, the words "Joe, run" appear on screen. CNN reports that Biden is convening a "family conversation" this weekend to discuss a potential candidacy.

Will he? Won't he? One thing is certain: If Biden does run, his private anguish will be a key element in his public narrative. Critics may argue — some already have — that how a man handles deals with heartbreaking loss is a poor criterion for selecting a commander-in-chief. But that's a judgment for voters to make, and in recent decades would-be presidents of both parties have gone out of their way to invoke moments of personal suffering or sorrow. Al Gore spoke movingly of his sister's death from lung cancer; John McCain's political image is inextricable from his experience as a tortured POW in Vietnam. In politics, writes Slate's Josh Voorhees, "pain can be powerful" — and modern politicians know it.

That doesn't lessen by an iota the agony of having to bury one's child, a devastation Biden is now experiencing for the second time. To those of us who are not politicians, the thought of launching a White House bid while simultaneously mourning a son's death might seem incomprehensible. Biden, however, is a politician. Politics is what he does. Life is for the living, and it goes on even after profound heartache. Men and women the world over weep for their dead, then resume their lives and careers. CEOs and teachers and military officers and doctors find the resilience to carry on in the wake of terrible loss. Ambitious politicians do too.

If he gets in, Biden would not be the first candidate in the 2016 race who has outlived a son or daughter. Carly Fiorina's stepdaughter Lori died in 2009 at age 35, a victim of alcohol and drug addiction.

Nor is Biden the first president or vice president to lose a child while in office.

In 1924, shortly after Calvin Coolidge clinched his party's nomination to run for a full term as president, his teenage son and namesake, Calvin Jr., died of blood poisoning caused by a blister on his right toe. Coolidge went on to win the fall election and was a popular and successful chief executive. But his son's death cast a permanent shadow. "When he went, the power and the glory of the presidency went with him," Coolidge wrote. Four years later, still grieving, he declined to run for reelection.

Abraham Lincoln's 11-year-old son Willie died of typhoid fever in 1862, in the midst of his father's presidency. As in Biden's case, He was the second of Lincoln's children to die young: Edward Lincoln had succumbed to diphtheria in 1850, at age 3.

Just days before Franklin Pierce's inauguration as the 14th president, his son Benny was killed in a train wreck before his parents' eyes. He was the third of Pierce's children — and the third to precede his parents in death. Even worse was the fate of Thomas Jefferson, who buried five of six children he had with his wife, Martha (who also died young, at 33). The death of his daughter Polly in April 1804 plunged Jefferson into despair; he wrote to his sole surviving child, Patsy Jefferson Randolph, that he yearned to be free of political obligations. Yet he was reelected president that fall, and served another four years.

"There is no more remarkable common denominator among American presidents than their early encounters with premature death," observes Doug Wead in "All the Presidents' Children," a sobering history of the First Families. "Twenty-six children of presidents died before the age of five, and dozens more before they reached thirty. Rutherford B. Hayes had seven children; three died before their second birthday. John Tyler lost three of his adult daughters within a six-year period." Franklin Roosevelt, Dwight Eisenhower, John F. Kennedy, Ronald Reagan, George H. W. Bush — all underwent the trauma of burying a young child.

"We must not create an atmosphere of sadness in the White House," a grief-stricken JFK resolved after the death of his newborn son Patrick in August 1963. "This would not be good for anyone," he told his wife Jackie, "not for the country and not for the work we have to do."

Those words can offer guidance as the freshly bereaved Biden ponders his political future. For JFK was right: A public "atmosphere of sadness" can never be good for the White House, no matter how much private sadness its occupants have endured.


TOPICS: Culture/Society; Editorial; Politics/Elections; US: California; US: Delaware
KEYWORDS: california; carlyfiorina; delaware; joebiden
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1 posted on 10/12/2015 5:45:16 AM PDT by Kaslin
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To: Kaslin
Joe is a clown, not a liar
2 posted on 10/12/2015 5:47:46 AM PDT by knarf (I say things that are true ... I have no proof ... but they're true.)
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To: Kaslin; All
If Biden does run, his private anguish will be a key element in his public narrative.

so if biden tries to exploit the deaths of family members to win the presidency then all is fair game, correct? such as all the times biden slandered the truck driver involved in the accident with his first wife and daughter by saying he "drank his lunch", inferring the driver was drunk, which was completely false...
3 posted on 10/12/2015 5:50:35 AM PDT by God luvs America (63.5 million pay no income tax and vote for DemoKrats...)
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To: Kaslin

I think the loss of the Kennedy baby is overlooked. Poor Jackie, she lost a baby and her husband (brutally murdered right in front of her) in just a few years. I don’t know how people get through these things.

And I feel for Biden, I can’t imagine what it would be like to have your child survive a dreadful accident that killed his mother and sister, only to have him still die way to young decades later.

I think Biden is the biggest threat to an R victory next year, I’ve said that before and I’ll probably say it again. And it really shows what a world class flop Hillary! is. She is DEVOID of even a drop of charm, and Biden, well he’s got some of that.


4 posted on 10/12/2015 5:53:33 AM PDT by jocon307
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To: God luvs America

I’m not much of an alcohol drinker. Really don’t touch the stuff except at special things where I pretend to sip the same drink for a few hours.

I will probably become an alcoholic if I have to endure eight years of Joe Biden as President.


5 posted on 10/12/2015 5:54:55 AM PDT by Read Write Repeat (Not one convinced me they want the job yet)
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To: God luvs America

Because of that earlier horrific accident when Biden lost a wife and daughter, I’m not buying his grief as an excuse for his indecision. He knows quite well how he handles grief. Is he just there on the sidelines in case hillary becomes unredeemable? Because of Biden’s soap opera, it’s making it very difficult for Saunders and the others to emerge as viable candidates.


6 posted on 10/12/2015 5:55:02 AM PDT by grania
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To: jocon307

The sort of “charm” you see in a crazy uncle.


7 posted on 10/12/2015 5:55:44 AM PDT by EternalVigilance
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To: God luvs America

He us a harlot, just like all the rest.


8 posted on 10/12/2015 6:06:33 AM PDT by ZULU (Mt. McKinley is the tallest mountain in N. America. Denali is Aleut for "scam artist.")
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To: God luvs America
so if biden tries to exploit the deaths of family members to win the presidency then all is fair game, correct? such as all the times biden slandered the truck driver involved in the accident with his first wife and daughter by saying he "drank his lunch", inferring the driver was drunk, which was completely false...

Exactly. There is nothing private about any aspect of his life that he can exploit and exaggerate to his advantage. He is a lout, just like every other candidate the demotards have fielded in many years...

9 posted on 10/12/2015 6:09:09 AM PDT by awelliott (What one generation tolerates, the next embraces....)
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To: knarf

“Joe is a clown, not a liar”

BOVINE EXCRETMENT
Bull shit.
Biden has lied for forty years about the accident that killed his first wife and child. The son of a bitch said on many occasions that the truck driver “Drank his Lunch” which is not so. Biden’s wife blew a stop sign.
That has not stopped Son of a bitch Biden from slandering the poor driver and his family for FORTY years.


10 posted on 10/12/2015 6:12:18 AM PDT by Tupelo (Honest men may go to Washington, but Honest men do not stay in Wahington.)
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To: Tupelo
I'll accept the chastisement ... FReepers know so much more than anyone

My comment was innocently aired

Thanx

11 posted on 10/12/2015 6:18:13 AM PDT by knarf (I say things that are true ... I have no proof ... but they're true.)
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To: Read Write Repeat
I will probably become an alcoholic if I have to endure eight years of Joe Biden as President.

You mean Obama hasn't been bad enough to drive you to drink?

12 posted on 10/12/2015 6:28:45 AM PDT by usconservative (When The Ballot Box No Longer Counts, The Ammunition Box Does. (What's In Your Ammo Box?))
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To: grania

never let a good crisis go to waste


13 posted on 10/12/2015 6:31:47 AM PDT by mouse1
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To: knarf

Biden is one of the BIGGEST LIARS in DC.

Ask the Curtis Dunn family about that.


14 posted on 10/12/2015 6:33:47 AM PDT by austinaero
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To: austinaero

I’ve been corrected


15 posted on 10/12/2015 6:36:24 AM PDT by knarf (I say things that are true ... I have no proof ... but they're true.)
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To: usconservative

My health insurance sucks and can’t afford a liver transplant.


16 posted on 10/12/2015 6:37:46 AM PDT by Read Write Repeat (Not one convinced me they want the job yet)
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To: Kaslin

Since I’ve buried 2, one at 33 days old, born with a viral infection, the other 16 yrs old AMBUSHED AND MURDERED by a Sociopath for the thrills to see what it felt like to kill.

What makes being a politician any different than me? NOTHING except they have a title beyond dad or mom.


17 posted on 10/12/2015 6:41:36 AM PDT by GailA (Those who break Promises to Our Troops, you won't keep them to anyone. Ret. SCPO's wife)
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To: GailA

Heartfelt condolences for the loss of your children.


18 posted on 10/12/2015 6:57:13 AM PDT by usconservative (When The Ballot Box No Longer Counts, The Ammunition Box Does. (What's In Your Ammo Box?))
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To: Kaslin

So have I. Twice. And Joe Biden is still a POS.


19 posted on 10/12/2015 7:04:11 AM PDT by Diamond (He has erected a multitude of new offices, and sent hither swarms of officers to harass our people,)
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To: Diamond

As have I. One daughter only lived for eight hours, and my oldest son passed away in 2012 at the age of 52


20 posted on 10/12/2015 7:06:43 AM PDT by Kaslin (He needed the ignorant to reelect him, and he got them. Now we all have to pay the consequenses)
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