You are not in a position to assert that.
There is no right to secretly expose your spouse to diseases which could kill or sterilize them.
And absolutely that is implicit in your assertion.
HPV, Herpes, AIDS, even diseases that a so kisser to re not strictly venereal like tuberculosis and hepatitis.
All that comes with adultry.
You haven’t demonstrated any moral or ethical high ground.
Well, as a matter of fact I am in a position to make the case that may well be the situation. You on the other hand are not in a position to be able to deny it.
Where did I say they had a right to secretly expose a spouse to anything.
What I said was that there may be an understanding between the husband and wife. You can’t say that there isn’t.
So you can come up with your wildest dreams all you like, but you don’t know that this person isn’t just being with one person with little sexual history.
And once again, you don’t know what’s going on at home and what the wife might be bringing home.
You don’t know what you are talking about.
I have said I don’t agree with this taking place. I have also said I don’t think it is the duty of third party people to become involved and create havok in the lives of others.
You simply DO NOT have enough information to make a educated decision. When that is the case, it’s best to stay out of it.
Having been on the receiving end of this type of garbage many years ago; I feel qualified to address it.
We had an 8 yr. old child. - Husbnd “met” the woman at work. She had a “supervisory” job, (unlike “nobody” me).
She “looked” clean, neat & well dressed. Of course, there was no way she could possibly be a diseased old skank. Was there? - I don’t know. Now, he & I go to the same doctor. I can’t broach the subject at this point. He goes off on a tangent if I do. All I can do is *hope* I don’t have crabs or some other STD. I’ve lived for the past 42 years not knowing for sure. AIDS wasn’t a biggie at that time. Of course, he *assured* me they “hadn’t done THAT”. So, all I can do is *hope*. (I do know that I dropped by her apartment the following evening & she already had her another “squeeze” lounging on her settee drinking beer & smoking cigarettes. My husband accused me of lying about that at the time. There was no way she would cheat on him! Ha!)
I asked him politely to stay with me because we had a small child. In retrospect, I wonder if it was a good idea after all. Lately, it just gets worse & worse. His “enthusiasm” for other women is still pretty active. Me? I’m nobody with a capital “N”.