[Kaslin]

I guess I missed the word "don't" in the first sentence, but I don't know what you mean with :They need to be found . in the supermarket, in the coffeeshop, in the hairparlor, in the department store

I'm confused, please explain

[Terry L Smith]

dear kas,

these folks are human beings, with habits, just like the rest of us, and go to places of business that cater to their needs, just like the rest of us.

What you or I or anybody else does, fathom. contrive, devise, noodle, contemplate, or consult Mr. Wiley Coyote of Acme Enterprises, or not, with that bit of insight, is what we each and alone decide to do or not, ourselves, by ourselves, and kept in our own hearts, therefore, the *blank* to be filled in, and held responsible for filling that in, to oneself, and no one else, and certainly not to me.