The kids that I have met that were or are being raised in a SSM are really screwed up. They are very confused about the rolls of men and women and their own sexuality. It is a shame and I will never support SSM adoption or procreation outside of a real marriage.
In my partner’s third grade class there is the child of lesbian grandparents. “Mom” abandoned him. Dad of course was nowhere to be found, if even known.
The kid is so messed up, when he is in the classroom, virtually everything shuts down except trying to control for his behavior.
Thankfully, he usually runs away. The school does not stop him.