Free Republic
Browse · Search
News/Activism
Topics · Post Article

Skip to comments.

How Does Gay 'Marriage' Hurt Us? Here's How.
CNS ^ | June 17, 2014 | Eric Metaxas

Posted on 06/15/2015 8:43:57 AM PDT by xzins

Christians are often asked by gay activists why they oppose same-sex “marriage.” “How does our marriage hurt you?” they ask.

Well, I can think of one significant way it will hurt us: It will destroy religious freedom and free speech rights.

The handwriting is on the wall in Canada, which legalized same-sex “marriage” in 2005, in effect completely changing its true meaning. Since then, as Michael Coren notes in National Review Online, “there have been between 200 and 300 proceedings … against critics and opponents of same-sex marriage.” Of course he means legal proceedings.

For instance, in Saskatchewan, a homosexual man called a state marriage commissioner, wanting to “marry” his partner. The commissioner, an evangelical Christian, declined to conduct the ceremony for religious reasons. He simply referred the man to another commissioner.

But that was not enough for the gay couple. Even though they got their ceremony, they wanted to punish the Christian who had declined to conduct it. The case ended up in the courts. And the result? Those with religious objections to conducting such ceremonies now face the loss of their jobs.

Canadian churches are also under attack. Coren writes that when Fred Henry, the Roman Catholic bishop of Calgary, Alberta, sent a letter to churches explaining traditional Catholic teaching on marriage, he was “charged with a human-rights violation” and “threatened with litigation.”

Churches with theological objections to performing same-sex “wedding” ceremonies are being threatened with the loss of their tax-free status. In British Columbia, the Knights of Columbus agreed to rent its building for a wedding reception before finding out that the couple was lesbian. When they did find out, they apologized to the women and agreed to both find an alternative venue and pay the costs for printing new invitations. But that wasn’t good enough. The women prosecuted, and the Human Rights Commission ordered the Knights of Columbus to pay a fine.

Of course, the lesbians knew perfectly well what the Catholic Church teaches about marriage, but they sought out a Catholic-owned building, anyway.

As Michael Coren puts it, “it’s becoming obvious that Christian people, leaders, and organizations are being targeted, almost certainly to create legal precedents”—precedents intended to silence and punish anyone who dares to disagree with so-called gay “marriage.”

If you think this couldn’t happen here, think again. This year [2012] we’ve seen ObamaCare attack the autonomy of Catholic churches by attempting to force them, in violation of Catholic teaching, to pay for contraceptives and abortifacients for church employees. And just last week, a lesbian employee of a Catholic hospital in New York sued the hospital for denying her partner spousal health benefits.

This is what we need to tell our neighbors when they ask us, “How does gay ‘marriage’ hurt us?” It means that those hostile to our beliefs will attempt to bend us to their will to force us to not only accept gay “marriage,” but to condone it as well.

This is why I urge you to join the half-million Christians who have signed the Manhattan Declaration. Please sign it yourself by going to manhattandeclaration.org.

You and I must demonstrate love to our gay neighbors, of course, remembering that we are ultimately engaged in spiritual warfare. But we should boldly stand up when our rights as citizens and the demands of our conscience are threatened.


TOPICS: Extended News; News/Current Events
KEYWORDS: ac; culture; gaymarriage; gays; homosexualagenda; libertarians; marriage; medicalmarijuana; metaxas; persecution; unnaturalmarriage
Navigation: use the links below to view more comments.
first 1-2021-25 next last
You will be assimilated or you will be persecuted.
1 posted on 06/15/2015 8:43:58 AM PDT by xzins
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | View Replies]

To: All

You will be assimilated or you will be persecuted.


2 posted on 06/15/2015 8:44:12 AM PDT by xzins (Retired Army Chaplain and Proud of It! Pray for their victory or quit saying you support our troops)
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 1 | View Replies]

To: xzins

OK I’m already irritated with something unrelated to the story.

What the hell is with this “Here’s why” crap? Vox is the first to use it now I’m seeing it all the time.


3 posted on 06/15/2015 8:46:57 AM PDT by cripplecreek (You vote for your TPP supporter and I'll vote for mine.)
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 1 | View Replies]

To: xzins

Rush played an audio of a lesbian activist a week or so ago, it isn’t about marriage, it is intended to destroy the institution of marriage. The LGBT whatever groups want marriage gone.


4 posted on 06/15/2015 8:47:22 AM PDT by exnavy (socialism and communism are indistinguishable.)
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 1 | View Replies]

To: xzins
It's not "Gay" marriage or "Same Sex" marriage

It's HOMOSEXUAL marriage

Why do we keep calling it what it isn't. If they're so damn proud of being sodomites, then call it HOMOSEXUAL marriage.

5 posted on 06/15/2015 8:49:33 AM PDT by laweeks
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 1 | View Replies]

To: exnavy

If the Supreme Court decides in favor of gay marriage, then it is knowingly turning Christians over to persecution.

We must not forget that when retaliation becomes a reasonable response. They started the war.


6 posted on 06/15/2015 8:50:45 AM PDT by xzins (Retired Army Chaplain and Proud of It! Pray for their victory or quit saying you support our troops)
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 4 | View Replies]

To: laweeks
You need a similar argument to oppose the persecution that will be coming our way for believing in natural marriage.

FIGHT FOR YOUR RELIGIOUS FREEDOM

7 posted on 06/15/2015 8:54:53 AM PDT by xzins (Retired Army Chaplain and Proud of It! Pray for their victory or quit saying you support our troops)
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 5 | View Replies]

To: xzins

Sensible words, represent much strife for all, not just Christians.


8 posted on 06/15/2015 8:58:23 AM PDT by exnavy (socialism and communism are indistinguishable.)
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 6 | View Replies]

To: xzins

These folks “think” that they are doing a good thing, they will hide behind anything, but it comes down to atheists. They got a huge boost with the libertarians and are playing the feminists for fools with what seems like a bunch of woman-hating gay men in charge.

There’s no reasoning with them, that’s a waste of time because of some weirdo emotional attachment to anything that frees them from oversight by God or anyone else. The only thing you can do is to outflank and destroy them. It is what it is.


9 posted on 06/15/2015 8:58:43 AM PDT by BlackAdderess ("Give me a but a firm spot on which to stand, and I shall move the earth". --Archimedes)
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 1 | View Replies]

To: laweeks

Thank you......HOMOSEXUAL. If they are proud of hat they dobhy are they embarrassed by the correct terminology for what they do?


10 posted on 06/15/2015 9:01:23 AM PDT by Josa
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 5 | View Replies]

To: xzins

Basically... because the phenomenon that it’s part of, does not, nor does it show any signs of being satisfied to, stand alone in a vacuum. It isn’t just “a bunch of people screaming that it is from hell.”

This measure is one appeasement that doesn’t buy peace.


11 posted on 06/15/2015 10:27:26 AM PDT by HiTech RedNeck (Embrace the Lion of Judah and He will roar for you and teach you to roar too. See my page.)
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 1 | View Replies]

To: xzins

The more difficult thing is “if you believe the bible is true, act like it, and that includes what it says for people in your situation when facing those who don’t.”

Frankly, I think the boycott craze is barking up the wrong tree, and too weakly to do any real good. If it really disgusts you that this list of 1001 companies have tried to make capital out of the phenomenon, then if you can keep track of them all by all means you may avoid them. But who is going to go to the trouble of being anywhere close to consistent here, and how does this touch the lives of those who are at the spear point of the trouble? It seems that when it comes to bullying through resource manipulation, they are the “champs,” not we. Maybe we shouldn’t fight the kind of fight they fight down in hell.


12 posted on 06/15/2015 10:32:17 AM PDT by HiTech RedNeck (Embrace the Lion of Judah and He will roar for you and teach you to roar too. See my page.)
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 6 | View Replies]

To: laweeks
Adam and Steve promising to bugger each other 'til death does them part (AIDS comes to mind) isn't a "gay marriage", or a "homosexual marriage" or anything of the sort.

IT ISN'T A MARRIAGE AT ALL.

Call it a Sodomite Ceremony ... call it a Buggery Bash ... call it a Fag Festival ... but don't call it a marriage, because it isn't one.

Words mean things.

13 posted on 06/15/2015 10:36:18 AM PDT by NorthMountain ("The time has come", the Walrus said, "to talk of many things")
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 5 | View Replies]

To: NorthMountain

Even on that level the relationship is often a farce, with more promiscuity being seen than if the two were simply “friends.”

But they have managed to get you to misfocus. The point was to capture the “official” word — not yours at all. Now that they have that idol in hand, they will use it in swooning service.


14 posted on 06/15/2015 10:39:32 AM PDT by HiTech RedNeck (Embrace the Lion of Judah and He will roar for you and teach you to roar too. See my page.)
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 13 | View Replies]

To: HiTech RedNeck
I can't control the 'official' word.

I can control what I say, and what I think. I make no bones about rejecting the association of "marriage" with what the sodomites do.

15 posted on 06/15/2015 10:49:29 AM PDT by NorthMountain ("The time has come", the Walrus said, "to talk of many things")
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 14 | View Replies]

To: xzins

No-fault divorce has done much more damage to marriage than gay marriage will ever do, simply because of the math of numbers.

This most important of all contracts is in fact no-longer a contract. When either party can simply walk away unilaterally from a contract, there is in fact no contract. Marriage (as a civil institution) as properly defined and intended no longer truly exists when its contractual nature is ripped away by no fault divorce redefinition.

Marriage is the first institution which the well-ordered and healthy state must attend to and nurture with good law and policy. Marriage civilizes men, protects women, and raises the next generation of healthy shopkeepers, engineers, farmers, soldiers, and mothers. As imperfect as it is, “traditional” marriage — with all its restrictions — is far better at seeing this achieved than whatever institution(s) take its place. Our state and society have forgotten this. We’ve forgotten why we created the civic institution of marriage — its contract definition, its licensing motivations — in the first place.


16 posted on 06/15/2015 11:31:03 AM PDT by mbarker12474
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 1 | View Replies]

To: NorthMountain

I am thinking of a tee shirt idea—a picture of a man and woman dressed as bride and groom with the caption:

DIVERSITY IS GOOD :^)


17 posted on 06/15/2015 12:55:31 PM PDT by cradle of freedom
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 13 | View Replies]

To: laweeks

Exactly. They hijacked the word “gay” because even they know that stupid Americans are turned off by the words sodomite and homosexual. They had to put lipstick on the pig. I never use “gay” when talking about queers.


18 posted on 06/15/2015 12:57:50 PM PDT by Resolute Conservative
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 5 | View Replies]

To: laweeks

Its not even marriage. Its just state sanctioned sodomy.


19 posted on 06/15/2015 1:17:25 PM PDT by liberalism is suicide (Communism,fascism-no matter how you slice socialism, its still baloney)
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 5 | View Replies]

To: NorthMountain

And they will (1) not care and (2) be unable to benefit [as God won’t either] through any gospel message through you


20 posted on 06/15/2015 3:05:32 PM PDT by HiTech RedNeck (Embrace the Lion of Judah and He will roar for you and teach you to roar too. See my page.)
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 15 | View Replies]


Navigation: use the links below to view more comments.
first 1-2021-25 next last

Disclaimer: Opinions posted on Free Republic are those of the individual posters and do not necessarily represent the opinion of Free Republic or its management. All materials posted herein are protected by copyright law and the exemption for fair use of copyrighted works.

Free Republic
Browse · Search
News/Activism
Topics · Post Article

FreeRepublic, LLC, PO BOX 9771, FRESNO, CA 93794
FreeRepublic.com is powered by software copyright 2000-2008 John Robinson