that Josh Duggar -- who was around 14 at the time
A lot goes on with a boy at 14. (not saying its right)
A lot of growing up and changing happens, between 14 and 27, especially after one is married and has kids of their own.
I'm sure you're far from perfect. I'm sure you did something in your past, that you'd be embarrassed to ever be found out and exposed.
By your standard, that would make you a disgusting person and warped. (present tense)
Typed like a true moral relativist.
Duggar crossed a very, very serious line from "embarrassing" to "sick."