A couple I know dealt with this issue a couple of years back when her step sister was getting “married” to another lesbo. This couple is moderately liberal, so it was interesting to watch their deliberations: 1) No way they were taking their children around the perverts, 2) They felt bad that nobody from their family would be attending, 3) Felt some obligation to go, since they felt some happiness that the step sister’s life had become more settled, 4) Ultimately ended up not going because they didn’t want to participate in a pretend “wedding” between two women, 5) Sent a gift.
‘Ultimately ended up not going because they didn’t want to participate in a pretend “wedding” between two women,’
Interesting that moderately liberal people would take that option while so many alleged so-called “conservatives” seem to be doing the opposite.
Probably a good way to handle it. RSVP I presume.