I’ve been saying this to everyone I know since I read Coming Apart. The data is shockingly clear. If you want to succeed in life, do this:
1) Get Educated
2) Stay off drugs,
3) Get married.
Unfortunately, feminist laws and courts make #3 an undesirable option for men who which to succeed in life.
I’ve got a friend who is a high school administrator. Her basic observation: the kids with two parents at home always turn out ok despite whatever trouble they may get in
4) Live within your means.