[Extremely Extreme Extremist]

Seems to me that more black women are changing their perspective and choosing to date white men.

That's in correlation to black men dating white women.

A lot of black men CANNOT STAND being with a black women. They are constantly being told they're no good, worthless, etc.

[Mr. Jeeves]

A lot of black men CANNOT STAND being with a black women. They are constantly being told they're no good, worthless, etc.

Whereas, white men are already used to that treatment from white women...so it's no big deal. :)

[MoochPooch]

A lot of black men CANNOT STAND being with a black women. They are constantly being told they're no good, worthless, etc.

While the current black pathologies are frequently blamed on the absent father, I think the black women may be partially responsible. I hate to use the B word, but so many of them are even more vicious than the men. Most likely they hook up, then at some point the woman (barely out of her teens) drives the guy away with her own emotional instability. It becomes a vicious cycle.