It's simple. Don't generalize. Stick to the facts. Don't assume anything about anyone because of their race, religion, sexual orientation, nationality etc. Those were things we learned in education courses back in the 1960s, for heavens sake.
Everyone is Racist Sexist Bigot Homophobe
And who cares. Do you think the faggots don’t make disparaging remarks about straights and straight sex. Blacks make fun of the crackers all the time. Not only do Christians make remarks about Jews, but Jews make remarks about Shicksas.
We need more Don Rickle types to DESENSITIZE and put people’s foibles out there...not hide them in a closet