[Gaffer]

He got a college degree, worked in social service (or something) and is now a waiter at age 33, pursuing his dream

I'd be willing to bet he underclaims his tips and keeps his earned income reported to a minimum. Even single, low paying jobs can qualify a person for EITC, SNAP, etc.

[ProtectOurFreedom]

He was such a loser, whining, sniveling millennial, I have no doubt your are correct.