You know what, something worthwhile has always been obtainable from God. Ever since the famous palindrome was uttered, “Madam, I’m Adam.” (Joke intended.)
A church that is serious enough about it to show God’s blessings in various miraculous, supernatural ways is a good nexus here.
If you go hunting around in “world” you are going to find the “world” variety of person. If it is “godly” you want then go where “godly” people go.
“You know what, something worthwhile has always been obtainable from God.”
I’ve got no beef with God. I love God.
Yet, God doesn’t care if I am married or not, in fact it’s preferable to Him that I’m chaste. If society wants me to get married and toe that line, then I need to see that there is some worthwhile reason for me to do so.
“If you go hunting around in world you are going to find the world variety of person. If it is godly you want then go where godly people go.”
Surely, but you’re still taking a leap of faith with anyone, no matter how godly they seem. I can’t see into their souls or predict the future. So I want assurances of commitment which simply don’t exist in this society anymore. Until they do, I can’t see why the risk is worthwhile.