While this is displeasing to read about, I don’t consider a seven year old capable of making decisions regarding sexual improprieties. When children do this, it makes me wonder if they have been introduced to certain things by adults. Kids are naturally inquisitive, so that isn’t necessarily true.
Of course we live in an age when kindergartners are deemed “need to know” when it comes to homosexuality and other fun things. Did she get some instruction that caused her to be inquisitive? Oh, of course not...
As others over at the site said, she shouldn’t have opened her big yap about this. It’s not something to reveal to everyone. It was not the sort of thing kids should do, so why open up as if it’s something others should be okay with?
As for her college “rape”, I get really nervous when women talk of too much drinking and too much physical contact. If she was drinking it’s reasoned to think the male had been drinking too. So did she rape him too?
Was he saying things like, “Okay baby, if you don’t want to that’s okay?” Was she saying things like, “I really shouldn’t but I want to so bad?” What do some of these conversations go like? If there’s a dead set no, then I fault the guy. You have to honor her wishes.
I will tell you something ladies. I as a male have advised women not to do certain things because it would put them in a vulnerable position. Boy did I get a glare. Suggesting not to drink heavily on early dating makes some women angry. Suggesting they not be out alone with even a single friend until two in the morning, gets another glare. I realize they shouldn’t have to modify their actions to be safe, but reality is reality. Be careful. Some of us out here worry about you.
It seems men are the only ones who have to show restraint. The woman can engage in anything she wants including the initiation of intercourse, and then say no, stop! And if he doesn’t, he’s the bad one.
We live in an age of no personal responsibility whatsoever. Many women think all men are rapists.
Well, put five drinks in me and I might be gullible enough to buy into some things I wouldn’t otherwise. Afterwards could I say I was taken advantage of, I didn’t really want to? And even if she only had one drink, wouldn’t I still be the rapist.
As a matter of fact, yes.
Many women think men have it made. If being blamed for just about any negative out come in life is having it made, I can see why they would.
“I will tell you something ladies. I as a male have advised women not to do certain things because it would put them in a vulnerable position. Boy did I get a glare. Suggesting not to drink heavily on early dating makes some women angry. Suggesting they not be out alone with even a single friend until two in the morning, gets another glare. I realize they shouldn’t have to modify their actions to be safe, but reality is reality. Be careful. Some of us out here worry about you.”
You should be given a medal.
Women NEED to start taking responsibility for their own safety and their own security. They need to stop getting pig drunk and think a bunch of drunken men will act like gentleman. They don’t.
Women need to grow up and American women in particular need to stop with the emotional immaturity and get with the program. These are dangerous times, getting worse.
It’s pretty obvious the parents’ attitudes triggered and likely rewarded the behavior, sadly. She probably learned to bribe her sister from adults bribing her for similar ... uh... “access.” I would pity her if she were still a child gone astray but she’s an adult now and if she has persisted in it, it his her responsibility.