John 6:
[43] Jesus therefore answered and said unto them, Murmur not among yourselves.
[44] No man can come to me, except the Father which hath sent me draw him: and I will raise him up at the last day.
Please. STOP.
Don’t walk so heavily on the man’s grave just yet. Angels are still gathering, even if doctrine says he’s no candidate for heaven.
Let those who would be sad have a little sadness in the memories of so much laughter, which angels love, all the same.