Apparently a lot of women need better taste
FWIW
I flinch, I shy, when the lass with the delicate air goes by
I smile, I grin, when the gal with a touch of sin walks in.
I hope, and I pray, for a Hester to win just one more “A”
The sadder-but-wiser girl’s the girl for me.
I think there is a strong inclination to find a man who is tough enough to protect you, make you feel safe, or provide for you. I have read that professionally successful women still seek men who out-earn them and have higher status.
Biology doesn’t change.
Mark
“Treat whores like queens and queens like whores...”
After dating quite a few girly men and borderline serial killers (ha ha), I found the perfect mix at 26. Moral of my story: Don't settle, stick to your values, and don't think you can “change someone”. Also don't think everything will be smooth going, but work through it.
No surprise, this.
Many men will choose “pretty” over “nice.” Pretty and bitchy wins over plain and nice. They will live to regret it, but looks trump all else for too many men.
Translation: Women really want real men instead of “metro-sexual” wusses. They want a man who, when he wants to “get in touch with his feminine side”, reaches out for them instead of inside himself.
Duh. This is red pill PUA stuff.
This isn’t news. Nice guys have always known this.
Definitely experienced this (long ago) when I was dating. Lost track of the number of times that women told me I was “too nice”. At the time, it was very frustrating; however, in hindsight, it turned out to be a great filter. Any women who thought I was too nice failed the “Sanity test”, which helped simplify the job of eventually meeting my wife.
IMHO, women who reject guys who are “too nice” deserve exactly what they get.
Recent “research” suggests that women are attracted to douche-bags because douche-bags demonstrate “leadership” qualities (e.g., independence, disregard for authority).
The problem is, douche-bags remain douche-bags and women wind up hating all men.
Then there’s Mr. GG2. Nice and tough. :-)