No apology necessary. “Bigg Red” sounds like a guy’s screen name, something I had not thought of when I chose it. I had to come up with it very quickly, as my first choice was taken. I would change it, but I have never been able to figure out how to do it.
I made mine sound like a guy’s on purpose. I was single when I first got online. I was getting hit on all the time on Yahoo messenger. So after that I made it all screen names lean male.