In other words,
they want YOU to do it, but you need to do it “right”.
My wife took a temporary job that required a lot of time away from home, so the home chores fell to me. She at first was very upset that things weren’t being done her way. I reminded her that they were getting done my way because I was doing them. The complaining stopped right there.
Different priorities.
With no disrespect, it can be the same with yard work, as in the man doesn’t think the mowing was done properly. Or not folding someone’s undershirts or handkerchiefs in a specified way. Or the trash...don’t get me started on handling of the trash.