You can say that again. I know I've said this before, but I STILL can't get over my mother saying, 'Why don't you want me to be happy?' when I protested her divorcing my father. As if she was the only one whose feelings mattered.
>>You can say that again. I know I’ve said this before, but I STILL can’t get over my mother saying, ‘Why don’t you want me to be happy?’ when I protested her divorcing my father. As if she was the only one whose feelings mattered.
And I don’t mean to implicate all divorcees by my comments, I just find that many times the kids, regardless of the conditions, want to have a “stable” family like everyone else. The biggest victim I see is girls that lose time with their fathers. It scars them mentally.
...mother saying, ‘Why don’t you want me to be happy?’....
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Yeah, there is a lot of that going around, sadly.