People need to talk seriously about this. The country is going to break apart anyhow. The question is only on what terms it will be divided.
I'm facing a similar, ominous situation. I may have to resign from an editorial position on account of an open lesbian wanting me to post news about her, ahem, "wedding" -- in a Jewish newsletter. On top of this, she wants to call it a "Jewish" wedding.
As liberals are soon to learn, there are issues that cannot be resolved. Or resolved the way they would like.
Unfortunately, conservatives are going to go through a crucible. The job market, tough as it is now, will not be easy for anyone with traditional values. The high-powered, high-paying jobs in the outside world will go to these "creative" types, while the only places for everyone else will be religiously affiliated.