[tom h]

"...most pretty girls I’ve met were sexually assaulted in some way. Most often as children and the crime is typically covered up by family

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You must live in a really depraved town. That is just absurd."

The fellow must subscribe to the feminist notion of abuse, that anything a girl considers abusive is sexual abuse -- e.g., an unwanted kiss or a teenage boy that tries to slide his hand under her blouse.

That's not abuse -- that's learning about the world of men.

[Bigg Red]

You are probably right about that definition. I have seen ridiculous numbers quoted by the man-haters — something like 1/3 of all females have been sexually assaulted. And, yes, it includes being called a name. With the current nonsense about the word “bossy”, I suppose they will include that as an assault.

As to your examples, when I was a teenaged girl, we called that getting fresh. Your first example would have been excused, whereas the second would mean no second date with that guy.