[jeffc]

I'll call them "gay" when they call me "normal".

But if they won't refer to me by the term I want used for me and those like me, why should I refer to them by what they want?

I'm heterosexual and they are homosexual; hetero and homo. What's the problem, have they changed the clinical names?

[bert]

actually, they are Queer.

Queers are deviant but they hate being segregated by being called deviants. So, to keep the peace, just use the catch all Queer.