Have you found that your “forgiveness” is being greeted as condescension?
No. In fact if anything, the person I forgave (who didn’t ask forgiveness from me) is treating me now with less condescension. I didn’t tell her I forgave her, and I haven’t forgiven her for what she did for me. I have simply forgiven her for not asking to forgive her. That has resolved the injustice for me, and that is what I was talking about doing, to be clear.