OK ... I just re-read the article.
Twice.
She’s right on all counts.
This isn’t even a “hard truth”. It’s a simple truth, stated plainly. Anyone who finds it “hard” needs to look in the mirror to locate the problem.
“This isnt even a hard truth. Its a simple truth, stated plainly.”
I think the language barrier is keeping me from explaining.
Suppose your wife asks “does this dress make my ass look fat?”
How do you answer?
Well, the same finesse is required here.