Hmmmm lots of scripture quotes and condemnation . how about this one
“For if you forgive others for their transgressions, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. “But if you do not forgive others, then your Father will not forgive your transgressions. Matthew 6:14-15
Hate the sin, not the sinner.
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It is not showing love for the sinner at all to allow him to stay lost in his sins.
The first loving word Jesus said in His public ministry was "Repent!".
We should imitate Jesus Christ.