You may think this makes me “soft’, but I operate on the assumption that a person who takes their own life does so in such a state of mental and emotional desperation they they are not able to be held morally responsible. It is no man’s place to say where the soul of another will spend eternity.
They do so because satan has tricked them into thinking that things will be better if they destroy themselves. Yes, I have compassion for them and am royally ticked that God allows satan to screw with people. The act of hers I have a problem with is killing her child. The act of God’s I have a problem with is allowing the culture to be compromised to the point that people can fall for the lie that killing your child could ever be ok. The whole thing is mess and as Mother Teresa said God has a lot of explaining to do.