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Get the State Out of Marriage
Townhall.com ^ | January 27, 2014 | Mark Baisley

Posted on 01/27/2014 3:28:50 PM PST by Kaslin

It is Super Bowl week; Time for a football analogy to politics: The best defense is a good offense. Yep. Perhaps the most successful head-fake tactic of the left has been political correctness and I think that it is high time that we got our defense off the field and start throwing some play-action post routes of our own.

The leftist playbook includes instructions to accuse the right of being cruelly unfair in response to every assertion of a conservative standard. Reducing taxes is to “fund the government on the backs of the poor.” Opposing Obama’s takeover of health care is to “reveal racist contempt towards a black president.” Contending for the right to life is to “wage war on women.”

Democrats win many elections by painting Republican candidates as insensitive puritans who are absent one heart and the right side of their brain. What the Republican candidates are actually missing is a GOP playbook with instructions to avoid trying to be loved by everybody. Democrats have become experts at tapping Republicans with a small rubber hammer just below the knee. Watching the Republican kick his own legs out from under himself has become so predictable that it is not even humerus (rim shot, please).

You may have heard of one of my fellow Townhall.com contributors, an up-and-comer named Dennis Prager. Dennis effectively explores the tension between standards and compassion on his radio broadcast (see http://townhall.com/talkradio/dennisprager/438233). “The liberal tendency is to apply compassion to social policy when standards should prevail and conservatives’ tendency … is to place standards over compassion in personal life and they end up looking cold…”

Playing defense most of the time scores zero points. And decades of compromise just moves you closer to the opposition’s end zone. But we are beginning to see some bold maneuvers by the Republicans recently that have me very encouraged; Two examples:

Across Colorado, conservative communities have begun to take control of their local school boards. In 2013, Douglas County residents fended off a $1MM+ campaign by the union to re-take control of their school board. The first resolution passed after conservatives were elected in 2009 was to declare that the Boy Scouts were welcome on campus, reversing the prevailing attitude. This was followed by instituting merit pay for teachers, implementing a real voucher system, and disengaging the teachers union. The courage began to spread last year as inspired neighboring communities sought coaching from the battle-hardened Douglas County school board members and began replacing their liberal boards with conservative parents.

Now is the time for the Douglas County School Board to drive the conservative stratagem even further. By privatizing a high school, wholesale replacing the curricula with patriotic, anti-common-core syllabi, and banning radical environmentalism as a state sponsored religion, the board could keep the liberals playing prevent-defense. A good measure of success would be when liberal complaining turns into a thousand screams.

In Oklahoma this past Friday, State Representative Mike Turner boldly challenged, “whether marriage needs to be regulated by the state at all.” He floated a bill that would remove the state’s role of licensing matrimony. This was in response to a recent court order that strikes down Oklahoma’s definition of marriage as traditional one-man-one-woman.

Getting the state out of marriage is certainly not a new idea. But now that a state legislator has actually taken the first tangible step in that direction, the left finds itself backpedalling fast. Who would ever have thought that we would see the ACLU coming to the defense of marriage? But that is exactly the awkward role that the ACLU of Oklahoma has stepped up to. Now that they have marriage defined the way they like it, they are on their heels in a panic to keep the state involved.

America’s first Vice President and second President, John Adams, wrote in one of his many intellectual exchanges with his wife, Abigail: “I must study politics and war, that our sons may have liberty to study mathematics and philosophy. Our sons ought to study mathematics andphilosophy, geography, natural history and naval architecture,navigation, commerce and agriculture in order to give their childrena right to study painting, poetry, music, architecture, statuary,tapestry and porcelain."

I have long been intrigued by Adams’ sociopolitical graduation, captured 163 years later in Abraham Maslow's model, the Hierarchy of Needs. Through sacrifice, hard work, intelligence and war, conservatives build the foundations on which liberty can flourish. Subsequently, the compromises of majority rule naturally tend toward losses in that liberty. And when their sons’ sons focus all their attentions on self-actualizing, conservatives come to realize that the foundations need adjusting.

So back to my football analogy; I hope to see conservatives rain aggressive plays all over the field like a million short passes from Peyton Manning. We have surrendered far too much ground. It is time that Americans remember the basics and become champions once again.

Go Broncos!


TOPICS: Business/Economy; Culture/Society; Editorial; Government
KEYWORDS: goseattle; liberaltarian; libertarian; marriage
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To: Ted Grant

There are denominations that will marry non religious people. Of course they are nominally Christian - but who am I to judge?


61 posted on 01/27/2014 4:33:28 PM PST by rockrr (Everything is different now...)
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To: ansel12

“Marriage predated the Catholic denomination, and they aren’t going to become the state church and control our lives, anytime soon.”

I’ve never advocated that. If you wish to make yourself a member of a church and observe it’s policies, then that is your choice.


62 posted on 01/27/2014 4:34:28 PM PST by RKBA Democrat (Having some small say in who gets to hold the whip doesn't make you any less a slave.)
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To: RKBA Democrat

A question. Is it sin in the eyes of God to be ‘married’ in the realm of the church without the legality of the state or is ‘state’ approval necessary for ‘righteousness’? Just a question....


63 posted on 01/27/2014 4:38:02 PM PST by yadent
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To: RKBA Democrat

I’m coming to that conclusion, too. What purpose - today - does it serve to give them any sort of control over private affairs? If I can marry six men, a cat and a Vitamix blender, then the system exists only for revenue and control. Perhaps moral people should consider alternatives like homeschool families have done for schooling. If I can live with a woman and have marital benefits without loss of monetary rewards in a two-income home, what the heck? I didn’t make my vows before some fool in government.


64 posted on 01/27/2014 4:38:44 PM PST by WorkingClassFilth
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To: RKBA Democrat

Your religion or lack of it has nothing to do with being legally married in America.

Here is law from North Carolina “” After the American Revolution, couples could choose a clergyman or a Justice of the Peace to solemnize their marriage. The laws of 1778 provided that, in addition to the Anglican clergy, “all regular ministers of the Gospel of every Denomination,” as well as Justices of the Peace were “empowered to celebrate Matrimony””


65 posted on 01/27/2014 4:39:28 PM PST by ansel12 (Ben Bradlee -- JFK told me that "he was all for people's solving their problems by abortion".)
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To: yadent

If you don’t care if your marriage is legal, then do whatever you want.

You have always been able to have your own “marriage” you don’t need it to be recognized by law if you want to avoid that.


66 posted on 01/27/2014 4:41:56 PM PST by ansel12 (Ben Bradlee -- JFK told me that "he was all for people's solving their problems by abortion".)
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To: Nowhere Man

Since the feds have so much dealing with marriage, in the military, federal employment and immigration etc., do you want them accepting homosexual marriage?


67 posted on 01/27/2014 4:44:47 PM PST by ansel12 (Ben Bradlee -- JFK told me that "he was all for people's solving their problems by abortion".)
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To: ansel12
? I don't know what you're talking about. Do you have a problem with my question? If so, what is your problem?

Good grief.

68 posted on 01/27/2014 4:45:12 PM PST by trisham (Zen is not easy. It takes effort to attain nothingness. And then what do you have? Bupkis.)
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To: Vendome
Gays want to “Marry”? Let em but, only under the rubric and authority only feeble minded bureaucrats can conjur up.

Which means they are married and fully legal, in other words, you just came out for gay marriage.

69 posted on 01/27/2014 4:47:02 PM PST by ansel12 (Ben Bradlee -- JFK told me that "he was all for people's solving their problems by abortion".)
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To: trisham; Jewbacca

No, I was just wondering if you would get a straight answer from him.


70 posted on 01/27/2014 4:48:36 PM PST by ansel12 (Ben Bradlee -- JFK told me that "he was all for people's solving their problems by abortion".)
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To: ansel12

Ok.


71 posted on 01/27/2014 4:50:17 PM PST by trisham (Zen is not easy. It takes effort to attain nothingness. And then what do you have? Bupkis.)
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To: RKBA Democrat

Actually you do not need a license to get legally married in America, that is a myth.

If you don’t like law being involved in your getting married, then do your own marriage, if it isn’t legal, then the law won’t recognize it and you can have what your are calling for.


72 posted on 01/27/2014 4:53:27 PM PST by ansel12 (Ben Bradlee -- JFK told me that "he was all for people's solving their problems by abortion".)
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To: SoConPubbie

The form of government established by our forefathers cannot be sustained without a virtuous citizenry. They need not be Christian.


73 posted on 01/27/2014 4:54:16 PM PST by Fester Chugabrew
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To: ansel12

I came out for removing ourselves from “State Definition” in my life.


74 posted on 01/27/2014 4:57:26 PM PST by Vendome (Don't take life so seriously-you won't live through it anyway-Enjoy Yourself ala Louis Prima)
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To: ansel12
Since the feds have so much dealing with marriage, in the military, federal employment and immigration etc., do you want them accepting homosexual marriage?

They should not be involved at all, marriage is up to the church, temple, mosque, etc., and/or the people themselves. Perhaps we need a drive to get rid of all recognition of marriage by the Feds and tax everyone individually with a flat tax. Even so, it is not a strong issues with me, we have much bigger issues to worry about.
75 posted on 01/27/2014 4:59:19 PM PST by Nowhere Man (Mom I miss you! (8-20-1938 to 11-18-2013) Cancer sucks)
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To: Responsibility2nd
Its way past time to begin punishing welfare queens and rewarding Mom and Dad and the Family.

BUMP

76 posted on 01/27/2014 5:00:15 PM PST by Fester Chugabrew
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To: Kaslin

You inveted fedgov into a religious institution that you claim to hold sacred for your 30 pieces of silver in the form of tax breaks and special probate treatment and now you boo hoo when fedgov attaches favors you don’t like. Yeah... go ahead and hate on me for having the temerity to point out the bleeding obvious. Being for big government has it’s consequences. This should be a teachable moment for you all, but instead you’re going to do the stupid thing and think that government power can be restrained by giving the government more power. Fools.


77 posted on 01/27/2014 5:02:49 PM PST by Orangedog (An optimist is someone who tells you to 'cheer up' when things are going his way)
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To: SoConPubbie
I wonder what the Founders would say to that capitulation if they were standing in front of you today?!

What are you talking about? Back in their day, marriage was a function of churches and common law in most states. In most cases, it didn't receive state recognition until later. And it's only with income taxes and social security that the legal status between two consenting adults even mattered to the federal government.

78 posted on 01/27/2014 5:07:30 PM PST by old and tired
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To: Vendome

You came our for gays being legally married, this phony call for an America that doesn’t have marriage and divorce laws is a silly way of sidetracking conservative political action.


79 posted on 01/27/2014 5:09:07 PM PST by ansel12 (Ben Bradlee -- JFK told me that "he was all for people's solving their problems by abortion".)
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To: old and tired
What are you talking about? Back in their day, marriage was a function of churches and common law in most states. In most cases, it didn't receive state recognition until later. And it's only with income taxes and social security that the legal status between two consenting adults even mattered to the federal government.

Read the thread, you aren't even in the ballpark.

80 posted on 01/27/2014 5:10:40 PM PST by ansel12 (Ben Bradlee -- JFK told me that "he was all for people's solving their problems by abortion".)
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