I remember a few decades ago when the gays themselves called it a “lifestyle CHOICE”. This was before they discovered that it was politically advantageous for it NOT to be a choice.
Choosing sexual degeneracy appears to be similar to drug addiction, once the choice is made to steep yourself in it you are addicted and seeking to see yourself as just, well, normal. Of course an addiction mind is not functioning normally. To tell them they’re normal is to lie to them and make their escape that much harder to accomplish.