Hopefully it’s a nickname derived from Antoinette or something...hmmmm, that one could be problematic as well.
Maybe Toni.
Her name is her name. Not going to make her over for leftists.
They make fun of her, turn it on them, for making fun of a woman’s name. Do they also make fun of Shaniqua or Letoya when they are out of the room too?
Everyone has different names that are meaningful for the family.