I do not know how any man presumes to judge FOR the Lord nor do I understand why so many are so willing to forfeit eternity for the short time we have here.
I can’t imagine it at all.
Well, sinful people do say no in various degrees to God, and they miss out on a lot because they do. The New Testament is more explicit than the Old about God being love, however that is a reasonable deduction from the way the Old Testament God self-describes His attitudes and His requirements of mankind. One would hardly expect an indifferent God to ask humanity to love Him to the hilt... that doesn’t class God as any better than idols are. Some theologies might as well be paraphrased as “God is hate” or “God is indifference.” Some are even well intended readings of the bible, but are spiritually unbalanced.