Hmm.. I think the family was rude to take their head banger into a public restaurant if they couldn’t control him.
Dear Mr. Howard,
We have a child that we love very much but he has some behavior problems and is sometimes unpredictable in unfamiliar surroundings. We have done everything in our power to help him and yet there is only so much we can do. We are caught between keeping him home 24 hours a day in our home but we would very much like to vacation as a family and sometimes even dine out. While out we will do everything in our problem to limit any inconvenience to you or anyone else in the restaurant (airplane, clothing store, etc). Please let me know if we have your approval to bring our child out of his home under these circumstances or should we plan on keeping him inside for eternity. Thank you for your consideration.
There’s a reason you haven’t been given a special needs child.
Speaking as an individual who was recently slightly injured by a mentally disabled teenager:
His stupid “escort” (I don't know if he was family) allowed him to become overloaded with stimulus, and I stupidly ignored my own instincts, and got caught in the middle.
I often see supposedly “normal” adult people rudely act up in public.
I tend to avoid crowds, and limit my exposure to the general public....
Lancy, I wish you were sitting at my table when you made that vulgar comment about “head bangers”. You yourself would have been a head banger after I backhanded Bit$h slapped you and you flew backwards out of your chair. You low life.