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Out-takes from my very first post on this thread. LINK

Do you have any idea why cheer leading for right haven was such a bad thing?
Some of us on the sidelines of major discussions will observe our friends, wish that things could have been handled differently. We will experience sorrow that partings of the ways take place in life. I know I gain no joy from this.
...I didn’t always agree with everything BobJ did. Sometimes good friends get tweaked, they act out and there are no real winners when it come to the outcome. Sometimes our friends do things we wish they wouldn’t. Sometimes good friends go on liking people despite wishing they hadn’t done some of the things they have.

Why continue to belabor it when it is obvious from bobj’s known and observed behavior that he will never be welcome here because he doesn’t want to be here?
Sometimes our wishes are not very realistic, but then wishes are ours to harbor.

That he does not care for FR, and lies about the site owner?
Some of us on the sidelines of major discussions will observe our friends, wish that things could have been handled differently. We will experience sorrow that partings of the ways take place in life. I know I gain no joy from this.
...I didn’t always agree with everything BobJ did. Sometimes good friends get tweaked, they act out and there are no real winners when it come to the outcome. Sometimes our friends do things we wish they wouldn’t. Sometimes good friends go on liking people despite wishing they hadn’t done some of the things they have.

That doesn’t bother you one bit?
Some of us on the sidelines of major discussions will observe our friends, wish that things could have been handled differently. We will experience sorrow that partings of the ways take place in life. I know I gain no joy from this.
...I didn’t always agree with everything BobJ did. Sometimes good friends get tweaked, they act out and there are no real winners when it come to the outcome. Sometimes our friends do things we wish they wouldn’t. Sometimes good friends go on liking people despite wishing they hadn’t done some of the things they have.

No, it’s only about what good you think he did years ago.
Some of us on the sidelines of major discussions will observe our friends, wish that things could have been handled differently. We will experience sorrow that partings of the ways take place in life. I know I gain no joy from this.
...I didn’t always agree with everything BobJ did. Sometimes good friends get tweaked, they act out and there are no real winners when it come to the outcome. Sometimes our friends do things we wish they wouldn’t. Sometimes good friends go on liking people despite wishing they hadn’t done some of the things they have.

Not his behavior over the course of years where he lied and lied and claimed insider info?
Some of us on the sidelines of major discussions will observe our friends, wish that things could have been handled differently. We will experience sorrow that partings of the ways take place in life. I know I gain no joy from this.
...I didn’t always agree with everything BobJ did. Sometimes good friends get tweaked, they act out and there are no real winners when it come to the outcome. Sometimes our friends do things we wish they wouldn’t. Sometimes good friends go on liking people despite wishing they hadn’t done some of the things they have.

That doesn’t matter to you at all?
Some of us on the sidelines of major discussions will observe our friends, wish that things could have been handled differently. We will experience sorrow that partings of the ways take place in life. I know I gain no joy from this.
...I didn’t always agree with everything BobJ did. Sometimes good friends get tweaked, they act out and there are no real winners when it come to the outcome. Sometimes our friends do things we wish they wouldn’t. Sometimes good friends go on liking people despite wishing they hadn’t done some of the things they have.

Serious, put your money where your mouth is.
She is right to think in terms of them patching things over, and being friends. Sometimes our wishes are not very realistic, but then wishes are ours to harbor.

Post a thread lobbying for his return.
She is right to think in terms of them patching things over, and being friends. Sometimes our wishes are not very realistic, but then wishes are ours to harbor.

Adult enough to do it?
She is right to think in terms of them patching things over, and being friends. Sometimes our wishes are not very realistic, but then wishes are ours to harbor.

When I was a kid, I wished I could have the electric car from the dealer show-room floor. I knew I'd never get it, but I wished it could happen.

BobJ made his bed. It's obvious he's not coming back. I can share a wish that things were different, and realize that most adults understand this does not infer advocacy.

Please link me to where I said I thought Jim should invite BobJ back. Failing that link me to where I said Jim was wrong for not inviting BobJ back. Failing that link me to where I defended BobJ for doing bad things. Failing that link me to where I said BobJ did what he did because he was wronged. Failing that link me to where I said Jim had done something that made it okay for BobJ to act like he did.

I didn't do any of that. And so you harp on and on still not quite grasping that you are jumping to conclusions about things I never did or advocated for.

Now it's come to the point you're begging me to advocate for something I never intended to advocate for. Very strange...